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Sub Female (41) looking for Dom male Oshawa, Ontario, Canada

I’m looking for a Dominate type man who is 100% single and looking for a real time relationship between the ages of 38-45 who lives within the GTA and Durham region.

I have been in a Dom/sub relationship most of my adult life, with over 10 year experience, I’m a true submissive in every sense of the way, I’m bi (but not really into girls) white, 100% single.
I’m a BBW Female, I stand 5 10 with long blond hair, blue/green eyes, straight white teeth, 1 earring in each ear, no tattoos, 42D breast and large thick nipples, I keep my pubic area very trimmed and shaved.

I’m not into large amounts of pain but can take my far share; I get asked what type of submissive am I all the time and the best way to describe it is..... I’m always submissive in the bedroom, I have lived 24/7 before but not looking for that now being slave would be fine for a weekend, but not everyday.

I have to connect mentally with my Dom that Way he is in my head; I’m not here to be just a fuck and then asked to clean your house. I like to be treated with respect, I need to have a voice heard and asked what do I think, But in the end the Dom word is final and understood, and when my Dom gives me that look that word that jester, I know that I’m in the submissive roll and drop to my knees to serve.

So if this is what you are seeking please contact me.

Thanks for your time sub

I found this on a web site and think it describes who I'm as a submissive most of the time.
“SAM” Submissive – A “SAM” type submissive, also known as a Smart-Assed Masochist, is just that, a smart-talking submissive with a quick tongue. These submissive’s are usually only SAMs, or Sammie, to their partners or people they know very well. Usually, their Sammie behavior isn’t actually a cry for attention; it’s just their way of being playful. In fact, most SAMs when actually threatened with punishment will back off, saying that they were only playing and that they didn’t mean anything by it. Occasionally, this behavior can be incredibly frustrating to their partners who, by the time the SAM has agitated their partner into frenzy, are looking to string the SAM submissive up by their toes and see how many fresh red marks can be created. Interestingly enough, most SAM submissive’s are not actually masochists. They actually do not want to be punished for their actions as, to them; they were just playing around to begin with. The positive thing about a SAM sub is that they are usually great fun and very playful partners. Occasionally, they are playful to an infuriating level and will occasionally push their partners until their partners just to relieve the stress. Psychologically speaking, a SAM is probably not actually looking for punishment or attention, but just wants to show their affection by acting the way they do. The SAM is usually subdued by a couple of harsh words, because once they realize they have stopped being fun, they do not enjoy the feeling associated with causing their partner actual distress.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageMacedonian
BuildBBW/BHM
Height178 cm
Eye ColorGrey
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureButt
Body ArtNone, Pierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionDiabetes
Bra size40 / 90
Cup sizeD
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect match100% Dom and tall with a big cock is a must
Our first datelots of talking to get to know each other

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA master
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Branding, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Cupping, Dacryphilia, Defilement, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Fisting, Femdom, Food play, Foot / shoe worship, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Mummification, Needle play, Physical humiliation, Piercing, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Tickling games, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesBalloons, Exhibitionism, Feathers, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Lactation, Medical / Enema, Panty, Piercings, Shoes / Boots, Tickling, Trampling, Smothering, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars

Sexual Interests

Size matterYes, definitely

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyanything
Fantasy sex partner:anything

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Plastic Bottles, Newspapers, Shoes, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Heavy Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, Rubber, PVC, Latex